Will you marry me????

Well, today was a really sad day for some of our friends.  Jimmy and Jen have been dating over a year now.  They have had many ups and downs..mainly Jimmy's fault.  Jimmy is a guy who always guards his heart, because he is afraid of getting hurt.  Well, in the last two weeks, Jimmy has realized what he and Jen had together.  So, he put it all on the line.....Little did we know, it would come back to slap him in the face.

So the story goes...Jimmy wrote Jen a promise not with several things that he would change.  It was a great letter, and everything she has always wanted.  He promised her the world...well guess sometimes the world is just not enough.

Last night Jeff, Jimmy and I attended Jackie and Adam's wedding at Disney.  Jen was supposed to go, but decided she better not...she thought it was a bad idea.  So we went..just us three.  Jimmy's was so upset, he could hardly enjoy himself.  During the wedding, he kept saying, "I can't wait to get married."  I couldn't believe those words were coming from his mouth!  Amazing...maybe he really is a changed man!

Well, we got up this morning, ate breakfast and back home we came.  All the way we talked about Jen and Jimmy's relationship.  He told us that he had plans to marry her, but he needed to find the right place to propose.  So, Jeff and I said, "Are you sure Jen is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with?"  He said he loved her and she was the one.  So, I got the bright idea of saying, "Then why not propose now?"  That would be the straw that broke the camel's back!

We went to Littman Jewelers in the mall and found the perfect ring for Jen.  Absolutely georgeous!  The lady wrapped it up and away we went.  So we dropped him off to go propose. 

What happens next really breaks my heart!  Jimmy calls and basically tells us she said no.  He was devastated!  Then Jen called me crying asking why did we let him do that?  I told her everything and told her she really needed to think about the decision she just made.  This is what she has always wanted and now she's just going to throw it away???  Did she ever really love him the way she said she did?  I have to wonder?

Well, needless to say I'm heart broken for him.  He will never put himself out there again like he did today.  I'm proud of him for letting his guard down...but so sad it didn't work out for him!

I'm just praying that she comes to her senses and they get back together!

I feel like I'm losing a great friend....so sad!

Holley Ann